READ HERE about the STARTER Level PROGRAM
..............Explanation, Application, and FAQ..............
YOUR JOURNEY BEGINS with your enrollment.
First, however, you need to learn about the Domme
Corps, the women whom I mentor.
These women know what they want in a male,
especially in that “Dungeon of the Bedroom”. And,
they learn from me how to get it again and again,
whenever they want it.
Not for play, not as a pro-domme .. but truelife service
from a devoted boy (maybe just like you).
Two training regimens that overlap, that I have
developed, OSODD and Sex Slave Cuckoldery !
This often results in a boy’s self-imposed slavery,
slavery to his own desires, the best kind.
OSODD – Oral Service on Domme’s Demand, and
it is always down on her a truelife Domme does
NOT go down on any male, and she does not fuck
a boy in training. OSODD and SS Cuckoldery
become his only sex - and it is “beyond” anything
he has ever had before.
A boy dreams of eating pussy, and before you know
it he is begging for a golden moment and that "fifth
day when it is the sweetest" !
A boy dreams of being a sex slave, and before you
know it he is begging to be there when she uses her
Real Man, and to be the clean-up boy.
And soon he will be begging to take a whipping, to
earn the "privileges", the fruits of his training
A little help from Professor Pavlov makes it possible.
Clearly this is how you make a boy a slave to his own
desires, specifically tuned to her taste and temple.
This accelerates his obedience, devotion, and
acceptance of other duties. Hence a very good boy.
And each of these regimens has special options –
such as the one for a woman who has retained her
lactation, the magic elixir of eternal youth ..
And the woman with mounting desires. BOHICA is
her clarion call, and the moral is that “own a boy’s
backdoor, and own the boy”, as special endorphins
are triggered and set in his system.
In fact, for each of the recognized "boy types" we
have special regimens to take advantage of the
weaknesses that accompany each "boy type", be it
bad boy, sissy boy, sex slave, mommie's boy, or
bitch dog boy. But all in the boy's best interests
of becoming a "good boy, her boy".
He becomes HER boy, indeed.
Powerful control, but know that a good Domme is a
caring Domme. Responsibility comes with Authority.
This is why women come to me for training, guidance,
They are not employees, agents, contractors, or pro-
dommes. They are women who find me just as you
have, and find resonance with my philosophies which
they want to absorb, hence the mentoring. I mentor
as they train pre-screened boys - that is how the
process works. Each one has a goal of one or more
boys for long term D&s REALationships - tethered or
live-in. That is their goal.
They are NOT compensated monetarily to show you
attention. They all guide boys through STARTER
Level as a Teacher, his Trainer Domme, as well as
as sizing the boy up for long term possibilities !
Each is referred to as a DC. A DC is an esteemed
member of the Domme Corps. Prime age is 40 and
up, under 30 the exception. Good women don't
get older, they just get better. A good Domme is a
caring and responsible Domme, they all seek long
term boys for the betterment of life for all.
Each makes her own decisions about who she sees
IP, as it should be. We do maintain a Practice Pool
of boys who have consented to be IP lab specimens
when a DC wants to "practice something" on a boy,
if her own boys are not available.
Okay, now you know what is meant when I speak of
The Domme Corps, a DC, or a Trainer Domme.
Here is what happens when you enroll in STARTER.
All of this happens with frequent, if not daily, dialog
with a real truelife DC - who is eager to find out what
makes you tick, what how you can best be trained.
Remember also, that if you are married or just
exploring, that STARTER begins with email and
website - and can stay that way if it best suits your
The first stop is STRIPPING as we strip away your
vanillas identity, and you are given a number and a
somewhat feminine name - and this how you and
only you will be known.
The second stop is HARNESSING as we harness
you with a new confidential email account based on
your new identity.
Third stop is the MEAT MARKET on the Training
Site where your new identity profile is posted for
Domme Corps viewing. Boys brought in by a
specific DC are earmarked for her.
Fourth stop is EXPOSURE where your stripped soul
is paraded in front of the Domme Corps on JUGS
(their private discussion group) while they consider
the bidding for the next Auction, where DCs bid with
currency based on their performance in the program.
Fifth Step is ASSIGNMENT to a Trainer Domme who
will guide, probe, push, and lead the boy, mostly as a
teacher, through the STARTER curriculum of lessons
by email and website, creating a TRAINING DIALOG
between boy and DC. (The Training Dialog is the
sum, net total of all communications between boy
and his DC)
Now you are ready to begin studying the STARTER
series of assignments with your own Trainer Domme.
Sixteen Assignments or Learning Opportunities
ST-1, the submale survey, where the boy answers the most
intimate of questions for his Trainer Domme, and the
bonding and training process has begun for real.
ST-2 What is a submale ?
ST-3, Worship and Oath, where the boy is taught how to
worship his Trainer Domme while reciting an Oath that goes
to the core of the D&s relationship.
ST-4 Confession and Reporting Protocols
ST-5 DOMME SEARCH - Learn how to do it.
ST-6 Learn about Play and Pro-Dommes
ST-7 The Practice Pool
ST-8 LOCK the COCK - male chastity
ST-9 The D&s REALationship
ST-10 Discipline and Bondage
ST-13 Deflowering and Branding
ST-14 Forced-Fem and the HMP
ST-15 Tethered and Live-in D&s
ST-16 Destiny or done ? With acquired knowledge of
himself and truelife D&s, he is ready to make an informed
decision. "Destiny or done"
Destiny, and he graduates to the Advanced Levels,
TC, Tethered, and Live-in, in his Trainer Domme's
stable OR the stable of another DC perhaps even
closer in chemistry and geography.
Advanced training continues the Training Dialog,
and IP becomes a distinct possibility as boy and DC
continue to study, discuss, and bond through lessons
from the vast MystressWorld curriculum of lessons -
all designed to educate and jump-start new passions
- tightening the bond. She is looking for a keeper!
That is what STARTER Level is and where he leads.
Tuition Fees are for the Program Administration
STARTER Level tuition is $60.00 for 30 days.
(continuing tuition for advanced level is much lower,
three months for $100.00, eight months for $200.00,
fifteen months for $300.00, 36 months for $500.00).
If you would like to apply for the STARTER Program
complete the application below, copy it, and send
to Mystress at YesMystress@yahoo.com with the
following subject line: "Please Let me enroll".
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**The MystressWorld submale Formal Application**
02. Marital Status
03. Location (state, province, or country)
03A: What is your Collarme username?
05. Type work you do:
06. Which 3 of the "boy types" best describe you?
.... 06A bad boy
.... 06B sissy boy
.... 06C sex slave
.... 06D mommie's boy
.... 06E bitch dog boy
.... 06F other, you tell me _____
07. Have you been "deflowered" (pegged) yet?
08. Have you eaten pussy yet?
09. Have you ever been cuckolded?
10. Do nice breasts and nipples arouse you?
11. Have you ever served a shemale?
12. Have you ever served a Black Domme?
13. Ever feel like you just need a good whipping?
14. Are you eager to explore your inner cravings?
15. Which is most likely for you - tethered or live-in?
15a. Did you read FAQ or the STARTER description?
16. In your opinion, are you "good boy" material?
17. Do you need&respect strong feminine authority?
18. Is your cock, small, average, big, or really big?
19. Have you been restrained in bondage before?
20. Have you been slapped by a woman before?
21. When did you last ejaculate?
22. Confirm that you understand that tuition is
Copy, paste in an email, answer the questions, and
then send it to me YesMystress@yahoo.com You
may include any other information that you think
might be useful in considering your application (but
not too much, for now). We will be exploring deeply
once you are enrolled.
Place "Please let me enroll" on the subject line.
Good boy for getting this far, I will get back to you
within 24 hours, much sooner in most cases.
Semper Fem, hail to the Domme Corps,
************************** FAQ ********************
These instructions replace and supersede the
"application" forms that appear elsewhere on the
website. Filling them will only result in a message
to follow the instructions below !
You are here to see if enrollment in the MW Program
of Mentoring and Training is right for you. You can
determine for yourself by reading the following
Q: Is the Program Free for everyone?
A: No, of course not. Anything of value has a cost.
Q: What is the cost?
A: "Modest" for qualifying males.
Q: "Modest" ?
A: Yes, modest - compared to amounts that most
males typically spend for all manner of BDSM
materials and "services".
Q: Is this a scam?
A: No, a scam is when you are tricked into sending
money to someone and then you never hear from
them again. I have had the same email address,
this same website, and the same Collarme account
for more than ten years. All of the "friends" listed
on Collarme (Collarspace) are enrolled DCs and
enrolled boys ! References, there they are.
Q: Why would a person even be here if he thought it
was a scam ?
A: Beats me.
Q: Is there a really negative blog/review floating around?
A: Yes, dated 2009, more than 5 years ago. Written by
someone who was never enrolled. I do not mentor pro-
dommes and it apparently really pissed off that one.
More than 99.5% of Google hits are non-negative. Same
person posted the same thing on Collarme and was then
banned from the system. I have had the same username
on Collarme/Collarspace for more than ten years.
Q: Do you play the "prove it to me" game ?
A: No, I learned long ago that the "game" never ends,
and the male involved rarely proves to be of any
Q: What is the answer, then?
A: Some things in life require small leaps of faith !
Q: Is the program for designed for everyone with
A: NO, it is not for people who are only looking for
mere play or occasional kink.
Q: Then "what" is the thrust of the Program?
A: It is Truelife D&s - not play or pro-dommery, but
instead exploration of Long Term D&s
REALationships, as we call them, for the betterment
of life for all.
Q: Who are the women whom Mystress mentors?
A: Women who seek to absorb MW philosophies
Q: Are these women (DCs) employees, agents or
A: Absolutely not.
Q: Then why are they here?
A: To learn, hone skills, and train boys for LT
Tethered and Live-in service. They devote countless
hours to guiding boys through STARTER level while
"sizing" them up for long term relationships in the
advanced levels. They are natural leaders and enjoy
helping a boy explore his own inner needs,
fears, and excitements. Most embrace OSODD and
Q: a "DC" - what is a DC?
A: A DC is an esteemed woman and member of the
MW Domme Corps.
Q: How do these women find you?
A: The same as you have, their own self-motivation.
Q: What is typical age range for DCs?
A: 30 and older. Prime age is 40 and up, Good
women don't get older, they just get better. It takes a
certain level of maturity and life experience to make a
Q: Will all women be accepted into the Program?
A: No, play and pro-dommery are not qualifying
Q: How can you tell if interest is just play?
A: The lingo "play, into, scene, toys, top, bottom, and
switch" are the lexicon of the recreational player.
Q: What is pro-dommery?
A: "Play for pay" or so-much an hour for a "session".
Q: What is meant by the term "boy"
A: For our purposes, a boy is an adult submissive
Q: What distinguishes a boy?
A: It is his need and respect for Strong Feminine
Q: What is a "lab specimen"?
A: It is a term we sometimes use to describe the
boys whom we train.
Q: What is a "cunt".
A: A "cunt" is an adult biological subfem (to women).
Q: Is In Person service to a DC guaranteed?
A: No, of course not. Each DC make such decisions
on her own, as it should be. No one is forced to see
anyone IP, but it is a goal for all.
Q: How is a newly enrolled boy trained?
A: STARTER Level is first. The boy is given a new
confidential identity, and is assigned to a DC who
guides his initial training via website and email.
Q: Assigned or "Auctioned"?
A: Depends on how he got here.
Q: Are assignments permanent?
A: Only if both DC and boy want it that way.
Q: What is a tethered D&s REALationship?
A: It can be a destination or a transition to live-in.
Tethered means "like on a virtual leash" pulled in for
IP service and training whenever feasible, however
often or not depending on various factors.
Q: What characterizes a MW D&s REALationship?
A: For the boy, mental submission becomes his
"reality" while necessary and allowed vanilla life
becomes his "play".
Q: Is geography important?
A: Not in the STARTER Level where basic education
is the primary goal and is done via website and
Q: What about the Advanced Levels?
A: When a given boy wishes for live-in service, then
it becomes more important. Over time, women from
all over the world have entered the Domme Corps.
New women apply weekly. A boy is even taught out
to find truelife dommes on his own.
Q: Are boys required to "role play"?
A: No, there is no "play", but we do seek to identify
(thru exploration) a boy's inner core needs and
tendencies, and then develop them to make him the
best boy possible.
Q: What are the basic "types" of need and
A: There are five basic types - bad boy, sissy boy,
sex slave boy, mommie's boy, and bitch dog boy.
Q: What is a bad boy?
A: Not really bad or evil, he just needs to "feel" the
authority. Sometimes called a "whipping boy".
Q: What is a sissy boy?
A: A Sissy boys is a "good boy" who so admires
femininity that he seeks to emulate it in various ways.
Q: What is a sex slave boy?
A: He exists for his DC's perverse sexual pleasures,
usually on his knees or on all fours. Trained in
OSODD, as are all of our boys.
Q: What is OSODD?
A: Oral Service On Domme's Demand, a training
regimen coined and developed by Mystress. It is
deceptively efficient in accelerating a boy's
obedience and devotion.
Q: What is a slave?
A: A true slave, in today's modern world, is a slave to
his own desires. That is what "holds" him in service.
OSODD often results in such slavery to one's own
Q: How much control does a DC have over a boy?
A: She has no more control than exists in his mind.
Q: What is a mommie's boy?
A: A mommie's boy is a boy for whom Mother was
his first and enduring female authority figure.
Perhaps was nursed at the breast or wishes that he
had been. Longs for a new mommie figure to guide
his life again. Note, some DC's have retained or
re-induced lactation, the magic elixer, a form of
Q: What is a bitch dog boy?
A: This one has several meanings. Good dogs are
very obedient, loyal, and well .. useful. Down boy,
Q: Can a given boy have traits of more than one
A: Oh yes, that is the norm. Often we find 2 or 3 in
the same boy, just waiting to developed.
Q: Does a DC do things to a boy just because he
A: No, never. Whatever a boy "thinks he likes" is
considered a weakness to be exploited to accelerate
his obedience, devotion, and dependent need (all to
make him a better boy).
Q: Are DCs sadistic?
A: No, perhaps intense, but never sadistic. Authority
bears responsibility. Our motto is "D&s, erotically
beautiful, free of yuk or maim".
Q: What is yuk?
A: Golden is well .. safe and golden, but scat is
certainly sick and yuk. Needles and such are also
Q: And maim?
A: Necessary discipline will be a tad painful but will
not send you to hospital, that sort of thing.
Q: What if the boy is afraid of pain?
A: Then it probably won't take much to keep him in
line, will it ?
Q: Do DCs ever use a boy just for play?
A: "Play", no - but sometimes for "practice" to work
on certain skills, etc. We maintain a "Practice Pool"
of good boys who have qualified to be "practice
Q: What is the historic ratio of boys to DCs?
A: it has averaged about 3 boys for every 1 DC over
the many years of MW.
Q: Can a married male be an enrolled boy?
A: Yes, and the wife usually benefits from his training
even if she knows nothing of it.
Q: Is "better service to the wife" a valid goal of
A: Absolutely, many DCs enjoy guiding the boy in
Q: Does a live-in boy contribute to household
A: Of course he does, she will handle or supervise
his paycheck or other income, as it should be.
Q: But would not a slave be kept at home during the
day and be used sexually at night, always and
A: Sure, in a pigmale's dreams perhaps. No sane
woman wants another dependent. So of course the
boy will continue working for the common good.
Q: But, is there a sexual element to a boy's service in
a D&s REALationship?
A: Of course there is. OSODD and male nudity are
the prime examples!
Q: What is a GG2W?
A: LOL, "God's Gift to Women"- in his mind, a GG2W
thinks everything involving women should be free for
Q: Do you train "switches"?
A: No, a switch is, by definition, either a rank player
or a psychopath. A male switch is like a pit bull, just
waiting to turn on you - no matter how long so cute
and cuddly. Zero interest in a GG2W or a switch.
Q: Do you train former (male) Doms as boys?
A: See the last Q&A.
Q: If a DC has both boys and a cunt, what is the
A: The least of cunts always has stroke over the best
Q: Is this a glorified dating service?
A: No, a boy must place value on the educational
aspects of the program in order to benefit from it.
A: Yes there are over 200 lessons in the MW
curriculum to inform, break down inhibitions, and
jump start the training dialog between boy and DC.
Q: Is this really just a pro-domme hook-up service?
A: No, IP is meaningful only in the context of a
budding D&s REALationship (and the "Practice
Q: Are MW boys forced into bi-sexual acts?
A: No, nothing ever happens to a boy that he does
not crave at some level of inner desire. But, we do
explore with the boy to discover both the scope and
extent of those inner cravings.
Q: Do live-in D&s REALationships actually happen?
A: Indeed they have and do, it is meaningful and very
special when it does. Not guaranteed, but it is a
possible consequence and conclusion. Close-by
controlled is another option - somewhere between
tethered and live-in.
Q: Do you think I (the boy reading this) am a good
candidate for enrollment?
A: Well, the fact you are still reading indicates a lot
of interest. What does your little friend down south
Q: So how much is the tuition cost?
A: $60 for 30 days (less than a daily Starbucks) and
after STARTER Level it gets much lower - currently,
three additional months for $100, even less per
month for longer terms.
Q: Is that "modest" ?
A: Well, $100 might buy you 30 minutes or so of a
pro-domme's time, and when the time is up - what
do you have? Nothing, if you e lucky. So, yes -
modest it is, indeed.
Q: Does the DC get all or part of the tuition money?
A: We covered that before. The answer is NO, none.
Tuition covers the cost of administering the Program
and the rest is used to help distressed women in
Q: Uh, okay but why is the DC here, then?
A: Because she is looking for one or more long term
relationship boys for her permanent stable - both
tethered and live-in. As a DC, she has a natural
enjoyment in guiding and exploring with new boys in
the STARTER level. She is that Strong Feminine
Authority that you need and crave. Yes, she
probably has some very perverse sexual
desires, heightened when Dominance is exercised.
Q: Where are they located?
A: They are scattered all over the country, Canada,
and the rest of the world. Six continents and more
than 30 different countries over the years. And the
North American DCs especially like training foreign
boys, good boys. Cultural cross-training, you might
Q: Okay, I think I want to be considered for
enrollment, what do I do now?
A: Complete the Formal Application which appeared
first in this space. Copy the questions below, paste
them into an email, insert answers after questions,
and send to me at YesMystress@yahoo.com Place
"Please let me enroll" on the subject line. Numbered
answers will work if that will help you.
Everyone begins with STARTER level, ignore the
various separate short forms which were hard-wired
into the website many years ago.
Semper Fem, women are waiting for you !