Here, you can see if enrollment in the MW Program
of Mentoring and Training is right for you. You can
determine for yourself by reading the following
Q: What is a DC?
A: A DC is an esteemed member of the MW
Domme Corps - my protege and surrogate.
Q: Are they paid to give me attention?
A: No they come to me to learn and find boys.
Q: Are you looking to serve a woman, any woman,
or a Dominant Woman who cares about you?
A: If, just any woman -then this is not for you.
Q: Is the Program Free for everyone?
A: No, of course not. Anything of value has a cost.
Q: Is it expensive?
A: No, the cost is modest, and is for the program.
Q: "for the program" ?
A: Yes, the DCs are not paid to "care about you".
Q: "Modest" ?
A: Yes, quite modest when compared to amounts
that many males typically spend for all manner of
BDSM "materials and services".
Q: Would you not expect to spend any money when
courting the attentions of a female you crave?
A: Of course, you would.
Q: Why isn't it free?
A: If it was free, there would be no time to do
anything for anyone. Modest cost weeds out
those who are just looking to play.
Q: Are there any partial scholarships?
A: Yes, but it cannot be totally free.
Q: Why not?
A: Nothing is nothing and is "no commitment"
Q: Is the program designed for all BDSM/D&s ?
A: NO, it is NOT designed or intended for people
who are only looking for mere play or nsa kink.
Q: Then "what" is the thrust of the Program?
A: It is Truelife D&s - not play or pro-dommery, but
instead it is about the intensive exploration of Long
Term D&s REALationships, as we call them, for the
betterment of life for all.
Q: How can these women, the DCs be described?
A: They are women (not girls) who seek to absorb
my philosophies, to develop skills, and learn what
it takes to make a good boy even better.
Q: Are the DCs employees, agents or pro-dommes?
A: Absolutely not.
Q: Then why are they here?
A: Again, to hone skills, and train boys for LT
Tethered and Live-in service. They devote countless
hours to guiding boys through STARTER level while
"sizing" them up for long term relationships in the
advanced levels. They are natural leaders and enjoy
helping a boy explore his own inner needs,
fears, and excitements. Most embrace OSODD and
Q: How do these women find you?
A: The same as you have, their own self-motivation.
Q: What is typical age range for DCs?
A: 30 and older. Prime age is 40 and up, Good
women don't get older, they just get better. It takes a
certain level of maturity and life experience to make
a good DC.
Q: Will all women be accepted into the Program?
A: No, play and pro-dommery are not qualifying
interests for a DC candidate.
Q: How can you tell if interest is just play?
A: The lingo "play, into, scenes toys, top, bottom,
and switch" are the lexicon of the recreational player.
Q: What is pro-dommery?
A: "Play for pay" or so-much an hour for a "session".
Q: What is meant by the term "boy"
A: For our purposes, a boy is an adult submissive
male. As young as 25, as old as 65 and beyond.
Q: What distinguishes a boy?
A: Most of all, it is his need and respect for Strong
Q: What is a "lab specimen"?
A: It is a term we sometimes use to describe the
boys whom we train.
Q: What is a "cunt".
A: A "cunt" is an adult biological subfem (to women).
Q: Is In Person service to a DC guaranteed?
A: No, of course not. Each DC make such decisions
on her own, as it should be. No one is forced to see
anyone IP, but it is a goal for all.
Q: How is a newly enrolled boy trained?
A: STARTER Level is first. The boy is given a new
confidential identity, and is assigned to a DC who
guides his initial training via website and email.
Q: Assigned or "Auctioned"?
A: Depends on how he got here.
Q: Are assignments permanent?
A: Only if both DC and boy want it that way.
Q: What is a tethered D&s REALationship?
A: It can be a destination or a transition to live-in.
Tethered means "like on a virtual leash" pulled in for
IP service and training whenever feasible, however
often or not depending on various factors.
Q: What characterizes a MW D&s REALationship?
A: For the boy, mental submission becomes his
"reality" while necessary and allowed vanilla life
becomes his "play".
Q: Is geography important?
A: Not in the STARTER Level where basic education
is the primary goal and is done via website and
Q: What about the Advanced Levels?
A: When a given boy wishes for live-in service, then
it becomes more important. Over time, women from
all over the world have entered the Domme Corps.
New women apply weekly. A boy is even taught out
to find truelife dommes on his own.
Q: Are boys required to "role play"?
A: No, there is no "play", but we do seek to identify
(thru exploration) a boy's inner core needs and
tendencies, and then develop them to make him the
best boy possible.
Q: What are the basic types of need & tendencies?
A: There are five basic types - bad boy, sissy boy,
sex slave boy, mommie's boy, and bitch dog boy.
Q: What is a bad boy?
A: Not really bad or evil, he just needs to "feel" the
authority. Sometimes called a "whipping boy".
Q: What is a sissy boy?
A: A Sissy boys is a "good boy" who so admires
femininity that he seeks to emulate it in various ways.
Q: What is a sex slave boy?
A: He exists for his DC's perverse sexual pleasures,
usually on his knees or on all fours. Trained in
OSODD, as are all of our boys.
Q: What is OSODD?
A: Oral Service On Domme's Demand, a training
regimen coined and developed by Mystress. It is
deceptively efficient in accelerating a boy's
obedience and devotion.
Q: What is a slave?
A: A true slave, in today's modern world, is a slave to
his own desires. That is what "holds" him in service.
OSODD often results in such slavery to one's own
Q: How much control does a DC have over a boy?
A: She has no more control than exists in his mind.
Q: What is a mommie's boy?
A: A mommie's boy is a boy for whom Mother was
his first and enduring female authority figure.
Perhaps was nursed at the breast or wishes that he
had been. Longs for a new mommie figure to guide
his life again. Note, some DC's have retained or
re-induced lactation, the magic elixer, a form of
Q: What is a bitch dog boy?
A: This one has several meanings. Good dogs are
very obedient, loyal, and well .. useful. Down boy,
Q: Can a boy have traits of more than one type?
A: Oh yes, that is the norm. Often we find 2 or 3 in
the same boy, just waiting to developed.
Q: Do we do things to a boy because he "likes it"?
A: No, never. Whatever a boy "thinks he likes" is
considered a weakness to be exploited to accelerate
his obedience, devotion, and dependent need (all to
make him a better boy).
Q: Are DCs sadistic?
A: No, perhaps intense, but never sadistic. Authority
bears responsibility. Our motto is "D&s, erotically
beautiful, free of yuk or maim".
Q: What is yuk?
A: Golden is well .. safe and golden, but scat is
certainly sick and yuk. Needles and such are also
Q: And maim?
A: Necessary discipline will be a tad painful but will
not send you to hospital, that sort of thing.
Q: What if the boy is afraid of pain?
A: Then it probably won't take much to keep him in
line, now will it ?
Q: Do DCs ever use a boy just for play?
A: "Play", no - but sometimes for "practice" to work
on certain skills, etc. We maintain a "Practice Pool"
of good boys who have qualified to be "practice
Q: What is the historic ratio of boys to DCs?
A: it has averaged about 3 boys for every 1 DC over
the many years of MW.
Q: Can a married male be an enrolled boy?
A: Yes, and the wife usually benefits from his training
even if she knows nothing of it.
Q: Is "better service to the wife" a valid goal ?
A: Absolutely, many DCs enjoy guiding the boy in
Q: Does a live-in boy contribute to household exp?
A: Of course he does, she will handle or supervise
his paycheck or other income, as it should be.
Q: But would not a slave be kept at home during the
day and be used sexually at night, always and
A: Sure, in a pigmale's dreams perhaps. No sane
woman wants another dependent. So of course the
boy will continue working for the common good.
Q: But, is there a sexual element to OSODD?
A: Hello ??? Is the Pope a Catholic?
Q: What is a GG2W?
A: LOL, "God's Gift to Women"- in his mind, a GG2W
thinks everything involving women should be free for
Q: Do you train "switches"?
A: No, a switch is, by definition, either a rank player
or a psychopath. A male switch is like a pit bull, just
waiting to turn on you - no matter how long so cute
and cuddly. Zero interest in a GG2W or a switch.
Q: Do you train former (male) Doms as boys?
A: See the last Q&A.
Q: If a DC has boys and cunts, who ranks higher?
A: The least of cunts has stroke over all the boys.
Q: Is this a glorified dating service?
A: No, a boy must place value on the educational
aspects of the program in order to benefit from it.
A: Yes there are over 200 lessons in the MW
curriculum to inform, break down inhibitions, and
jump start the training dialog between boy and DC.
Q: Is this really just a pro-domme hook-up service?
A: No, IP is meaningful only in the context of a
budding D&s REALationship (and the "Practice
Q: Is this a scam?
A: No, but there is a quite scurrilous blog posted
and the abandoned by an angry person who was
never enrolled - in 2009. 99.9% of all Search "hits"
are non-negative, that is pretty good. On Collarme,
everyone who is listed as a "friend", both male and
female is or has been enrolled in the program. Ask
them if you want third party references.
Q: Are MW boys forced into bi-sexual acts?
A: No, nothing ever happens to a boy that he does
not crave at some level of inner desire. But, we do
explore with the boy to discover both the scope and
extent of those inner cravings.
Q: Do live-in D&s REALationships actually happen?
A: Indeed they have and do, it is meaningful and very
special when it does. Not guaranteed, but it is a
possible consequence and conclusion. Close-by
controlled is another option - somewhere between
tethered and live-in.
Q: Do you think I (the boy reading this) am a good
candidate for enrollment?
A: Well, the fact you are still reading indicates a lot
of interest. What does your little friend down south
Q: So how much is the tuition cost?
A: $100 for 45 days (less than a daily Starbucks) and
after STARTER Level it gets much lower - currently,
three additional months for $125, even less per
month for longer terms.
Q: Is that "modest" ?
A: Well, $100 might buy you 30 minutes or so of a
pro-domme's time, and when the time is up - what
do you have? Nothing, if you e lucky. So, yes -
modest it is, indeed.
Q: Does the DC get all or part of the tuition money?
A: We covered that before. The answer is NO, none.
Tuition covers the cost of administering the Program
and the rest is used to help distressed women in
Q: Uh, okay but why is the DC here, then?
A: Because she is looking for one or more long term
relationship boys for her permanent stable - both
tethered and live-in. As a DC, she has a natural
enjoyment in guiding and exploring with new boys in
the STARTER level. She is that Strong Feminine
Authority that you need and crave. Yes, she
probably has some very perverse sexual
desires, heightened when Dominance is exercised.
Q: Where are they located?
A: They are scattered all over the country, Canada,
and the rest of the world. Six continents and more
than 30 different countries over the years. And the
North American DCs especially like training foreign
boys, good boys. Cultural cross-training, you might
Q: Are there any scholarships for needful boys?
A: Yes, reduced tuition is possible with a work
requirement where the cost is just beyond your
current means. The work is not in-person, it does
involve computer work. Better to pay full if you have
the means, but available if truly needed.
Q: Is it possible that I might get a quick look INSIDE
the Training Site?
A: Yes, if you complete the application below and
ask me in a polite, respectful manner !
Q: Okay, I think I want to be considered for
enrollment, what do I do now?
A: Copy the questions below, paste them into an
email, insert answers after questions, and send to
me at YesMystress@yahoo.com Place "Please let
me enroll" on the subject line. Numbered answers
will work if that will help you.
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02. Marital Status
03. Location (state, province, or country)
05. Type work you do:
06. Which three of the "boy types" best describe your
07. Have you been "deflowered" (pegged) yet?
08. Have you eaten pussy yet?
09. Have you ever been cuckolded?
10. Do nice breasts and nipples arouse you?
11. Have you ever served a shemale?
12. Have you ever served a Black Domme?
13. Ever feel like you just need a good whipping?
14. Are you eager to explore your inner cravings?
15. Which is most likely for you - tethered or live-in?
16. Did you read all of the FAQs ?
17. In your opinion, are you "good boy" material?
18. Do you respect and need strong feminine
19. Is your cock, small, average, big, or really big?
20. Have you been restrained in bondage before?
21. Have you been slapped by a woman before?
22. When did you last ejaculate?
23. Confirm that you understand that tuition is
Copy, paste in an email, answer the questions, and
then send it to me YesMystress@yahoo.com You
may include any other information that you think
might be useful in considering your application (but
not too much, for now). We will be exploring deeply
once you are enrolled. Place "Please let me enroll"
on the subject line. May not see it, otherwise.
Good boy for getting this far, I will get back to you
within 24 hours, much sooner in most cases.
Semper Fem, hail to the Domme Corps,
Tuition Payment via PayPal:
Send your tuition payment to the "poetry society".
email address: Poetry_S_Beautiful@yahoo.com
Make note of the "Unique Transaction ID #" that
you receive, and send me "that number and the
amount sent" by email to YesMystress@yahoo.com