There are many perspectives to training a boy for good, obedient service. Here is just one of many. Whipping the submale Note: enrolled boys are given new identities for training and confidentiality purposes .. also, a DC is a Domme of the MystressWorld Domme Corps. And IP means "In Person". (scroll down to read all) Believe it or not, I keep encountering boys (adult submales) DUMB enough to say that they WANT or LIKE to be spanked .. maybe even whipped. Yes! I NEVER do things to merely entertain the boy. Training is about my desires, my pleasures, and little to do with his. He must find pleasure and satisfaction in being obedient .. in providing for his Mistress. I train boys, but we do it my way. Peek thru the keyhole and you can watch! Note that the words "training" and "dominating" mean the same thing. So, as long as a boy is in service .. he is also still in training. When his training is complete .. well then he is finished, indeed ! Some subs (dumb or smart-ass) come to me asking to be spanked .. saying that they enjoy it! Could be, but they won't enjoy what I give them, should I decide to do so. First off, I whip instead of spank. Kind of takes it to another level doesn't it? The word just has more impact. Whippings are never done to injure the boy or done from anger. Whippings are always delivered with love and in the boys best interests .. as I see it. But, let's face it, punishment must not be pleasant. Otherwise, it undermines authority and his respect for the Domme. I whip boys for at least four different reasons: 1. For actual misdeeds and failures. 2. Standard training technique used to teach the boy self-control and respect for me. And yes .. to have fear of my punishments. Thus, I whip every boy until he crys at least once .. and we talk about it everytime. You see, we need to know his breaking point! Tears are so very bonding. 3. On general principles .. to keep him in his place, sort of like preventative maintenance, as in "a stitch in time, saves nine". That sort of thing. 4. And sometimes .. I just want to whip a boy. My hormone level just needs the sweet release obtained only by whipping a boy. A good boy will understand this need, and take pride in receiving the whipping well, and be grateful that was selected for the honor. My, does it ever feel good to orgasm with a whip in your hand and a tearful slave, even if you have to gag him! Those muffled sobs just spur you on .. hotter and wetter, to yet another orgasm! Sometimes, the boy himself will ejaculate spontaneously in the process, so hot is the passion. It is true that some lesser boys have lower pain thresholds .. but that just means he will cry even quicker. And beg even harder. Incidentally, if a boy has been bonded to (collared) by another dominant before, then he will have to be whipped "harder and longer and more frequently" than his previous Mistress did .. in order to break that prior bond and fuse him to my control. In conclusion, punishments are never administered as rewards or entertainment. Spankings, slappings, whippings, etc., must be delivered, received, and understood as punishment. Punishment should hurt. Punishment must be feared. Punishment must be remembered. Yes, a sub of mine will ... rue the day that he asked to be spanked! Understand boy? I hope so .. for your sake. Mystress *